My New Friend Omax

Yesterday Adam went to “the beach,” which I think means he went to nearby Lake Victoria.  I opted not to go and reveled at the chance to have a day to myself just to read, write, pray, reflect, and whatever else I felt like doing.  I’m so glad I stayed behind because otherwise I wouldn’t have met my new friend Omax (pronounced long “O” and then “max”).

Around dinner time I headed down the road to a restaurant that Adam and I had gone to on Friday night.  That’s when I had originally met Omax, who was our waiter.  But we didn’t really talk much until last night.  Since I was by myself for dinner, Omax sat down and joined me.  I learned a lot about Omax in the next hour and a half.  He comes from a village in western Uganda near Queen Elizabeth National Park, and he’s in Kampala going to a university here to study travel and tourism.  I think he’s going to be great at it.  When I told him that I planned to go to Queen Elizabeth at some point this summer, he went to the back of the restaurant to grab one of his tourism books that was all about Uganda’s national parks.  He had so much to tell me about the Park.  He showed me pictures of the wildlife and helped me pronounce the names of some of the animals.  For instance, the word for ox in Luganda (the dominant language here)?  It’s kobs.  Apparently, there are lots of kobs in Uganda.  After all, they are important enough to show up on the 10,000 schilling bill here.

I also learned a little about Omax’s family.  He’s the 4th of 7 children.  And his father was killed about 6 years ago in an auto accident.  He says that his father prepared his family really well for the day they might be without him.  So, he and all his siblings have been able to continue attending school and college.  But by no means does that mean they’re wealthy.  Omax works as a waiter to support himself, after all.  He works full-time at the restaurant during the day, and he goes to college at night.  So, long story short, he’s working really hard to build a better life for himself and his family.  I hope he succeeds in that endeavor.  Admittedly, I’ve only spent a short time with Omax, but I’m pretty confident he will.  I saw a spark in him that is the mark of a person driven to making the most of this life.  I doubt the obstacles he faces now will be much of a match for his spirit and determination.

I’ll end with another food picture.  This is what I ate at the restaurant last night.  I normally don’t eat peas (they’re gross, after all).  But since that was the only sauce they had left, that’s what I ate.  And let me tell you something, the British could learn a little from Uganda when it comes to peas.  You would think after all those years colonizing this country, the Brits would have picked up a little on how to make peas properly.  These were by far the best peas I’ve ever tasted.  And by “best peas,” I mean I actually liked them!

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11 Responses to “My New Friend Omax”
  1. Wilma Owen says:

    Nathan: It was so good to get up this morning to have news from you. I enjoyed the e-mail today and I knew you would not let any grass grow under your feet before you met new friends, Your meal looked very interesting (even the peas)—–but I like peas. Send me pictures of your living space when you get the time. Do you have what you need to prepare any of your meals. (who would wonder that but a Ma)!!. Looks like we will get to go pick up Matt this week sometimes. That will be a good day. Got to go and get ready for a therapy visit this morning. Nathan, I love hearing from you and pray for your safety. Love you, Ma

    • larsviggo says:

      Hey Ma! I’m so glad you’re commenting on my blog and keeping in touch. I’m just staying at a hostel in the capital city of Kampala for a few days, and probably on Wednesday or Thursday I’ll head down to the village where I’ll be living for the summer. When I get there, I will certainly take lots of pictures. I’m so thankful to hear that Matt’s going to be coming home. That’s such a blessing. Hopefully now, he can move on with his life and start to put this behind him. I love you and am thankful for the prayers!

  2. Janet Winslow says:

    What a wonderful story about Omax. Look forward to pictures from where you will be living. Will be praying for your safety and that the Lord will use you effectively while you are there. Love you! God bless you, son!

    Janet

  3. Wilma Owen says:

    Hi Nathan: Just ate dinner with your dad and Gary. Stephen is working and Sharon had a dinner to go to so the three of us ate together. Stephen had his car worked on again and got it out today —hope it last until he gets out of school. I am so thankful that we can hear from you often and know that you are ok ! I love getting your photos– keep them coming. Gary and I will go see Matt tomorrow– it’s a long trip for just 2 hours but maybe we won’t need to go many more time after this month. Have a good evening and I look forward to hearing again soon from you. Love you much Ma

  4. Arlene says:

    Hi so, glad to read your blog. Still getting use to how to navigate around the blog. Is the post about Omax the 2nd posting?. Praying for you. Love ya, Mom

  5. Fabulous! I love believing in people!

  6. Sal says:

    nice! introduce him to Jesus.

  7. Chris Owen says:

    Hey bro! I’m loving reading your posts! Christie & I are thankful that you got there safely and that you’re enjoying yourself. You may be wrong in your politics, but I am SO proud of how you dedicate so much of your time to trying to better the world around us! We could all stand to follow your lead! We love you! Keep on posting and send me some pics!!!!

  8. Patsy Poe says:

    Hi Nathan. Your Ma gave me your website . I see your trip is rewarding so far. My thoughts are with you. I hope the food gets better.

  9. dewideu says:

    So you! Easily got friends! I miss you already :-)

  10. Patsy Poe says:

    Hi Nathan, I am posting again, I’m sure if you received the last post or not. I can’t find it on this computer. I guess you know that your friend, Blanche, won the runoff here. Being a good Democrat, I will support her in the coming election in November. Let us hope she will listen to her constituents and not be so wishey/washey in the next congress. I hope you are learning a lot and have a good time also. We are thinking of you here. I am going to play scrabble with your Ma and Aunt Betty tonite. Good Luck and I love you, Aunt Pat

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